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  1. headoncrash

    headoncrash Sex Lover

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    How long after your separation or divorce did you start dating again? My friend used to say a lot of men can’t stand being alone.
     
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    2. hilltoperxyz169
      I think we all do.
       
      hilltoperxyz169, Feb 12, 2021
    3. NoOneFamous
      I hate being alone, am adopting a cat next week
       
      NoOneFamous, Feb 13, 2021
    4. Ed Itor
      Shit don't do that man. First one than it needs a friend, than you have a house full & finally you become the lonely old cat lady everyone talks about & feels sorry for.
       
      Ed Itor, Feb 13, 2021
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    5. NoOneFamous
      crazy old cat dude? I can go for that
       
      NoOneFamous, Feb 15, 2021
    6. Ed Itor
      What you never noticed that it's only crazy cat ladies? I think that they wait until you are asleep and then trans you in some way. Maybe they eat it or if you're lucky they just use magic. lol
       
      Ed Itor, Feb 15, 2021
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  2. johnrael

    johnrael Porn Star

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    Started having a few casual dates after about six months. Started getting serious with someone after a year.
     
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  3. jagger1976

    jagger1976 Porn Star

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    It took me a very long time, I guess it depends on the circumstances, but it was 6 yrs before I dated a woman. I was pretty angry, didn't want to look at a woman.
     
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  4. deegenerate

    deegenerate Goddess of Desire

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    I think whenever you feel ready, is the best time, and then when you do start putting yourself out there again, try and take it as it comes, and not worry about trying find a replacement just to avoid being alone.

    Best of luck to you with your journey.
     
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    1. hilltoperxyz169
      Good advice you help a lot of people that makes you Special.
       
      hilltoperxyz169, Feb 12, 2021
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    2. NEOhioGuy
      Totally agree, last thing you want to do is to appear needy.
       
      NEOhioGuy, Feb 13, 2021
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  5. Chief Hu

    Chief Hu Porn Star

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    I started dating before the divorce. The courts are too slow,
     
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  6. headoncrash

    headoncrash Sex Lover

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    I am happy now. I am dating , but not going to marry again. I like being being alone in my place. Technically not a lone. There is my dog. I always get from couples I know they feel sorry I am alone but I am cool
     
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    1. Odins own
      And Dog's are faithful...
       
      Odins own, Feb 7, 2021
    2. Ed Itor
      & Unlike cats, who will eat you if you die on them, a dog will lie beside you & die too ... or at least bury your bones.
       
      Ed Itor, Feb 13, 2021
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  7. jagger1976

    jagger1976 Porn Star

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    I could never give up my space again, don't mind dating, but my space I will share, but never give up again
     
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  8. conroe4

    conroe4 Lake Lover In XNXX Heaven

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    Every time I've kicked one to the curb, and every time I've been kicked to the curb, there has been a line of candidates ringing my doorbell.
    A casserole in one hand, a six pack in the other. I figure I'd better not push my luck any further or need to try again.

    Fuck I hate casseroles.
     
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    1. 69magpie
      How many curbs have you been kicked from???....
       
      69magpie, Feb 13, 2021
    2. Odins own
      Send the casseroles and any extra women to me,:in_bed: I can't cook for crap.....
       
      Odins own, Feb 13, 2021
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  9. headoncrash

    headoncrash Sex Lover

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    I hit the powerball and not a lot of money but got a small house close to where I work So it workd out
     
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  10. Braxton.B

    Braxton.B Poontang Connoisseur

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    Wasn't long after my divorce I shacked up with a gal from Canada who was bat shit crazy. When she decided she was going to act more like a wife than a shack up it was time for her to go. I've done the marriage thing and want no more of it.
     
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    1. inmyhand
      me either life's to short
       
      inmyhand, Feb 7, 2021
    2. Cherrypop
      You gotta watch out for us Canadian gals
       
      Cherrypop, Feb 13, 2021
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    3. Braxton.B
      Not only the dollars over there that are looney hahahahaha....I made myself laugh on that one.
       
      Braxton.B, Feb 13, 2021
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    4. Cherrypop
      Made me laugh too
       
      Cherrypop, Feb 13, 2021
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    5. Ed Itor
      Me three.
       
      Ed Itor, Feb 13, 2021
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  11. deleted user 555 768

    deleted user 555 768 Porn Star Banned!

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    'bout two years after D day I was bangin' some old broad just to get banged, that lasted about three, till the banging stopped and my insurance became the discussion of the evening.
     
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    1. Chief Hu
      When the insurance subject comes up it is time to make tracks.
       
      Chief Hu, Feb 7, 2021
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    2. Ed Itor
      And watch what they give you to eat/drink. lol
       
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      Ed Itor, Feb 13, 2021
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  12. latecomer91364

    latecomer91364 Easily Distracte

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    After my split and the legal bifurcation of assets (the actual Divorce didn't happen until about 4 years later), I didn't even want to start 'dating' again. BUT, within 3 months, I was going for my fantasies and was swinging with bi couples. Never looked back - it works well for me.
     
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  13. Rixer

    Rixer Horndog

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    After my divorce it was the worst days of my life and I didn't even like her anymore. I dated but nothing ever went far because I was still bitter. Once I let my hatred go, my life turned around. I've been happily married to my current wife for over 30 years.
    Life is good.
     
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  14. bilezmilf

    bilezmilf Sex Lover

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    My husband and I were going thru the divorce and he moved with this whore he was with. Before the divorce could be finalized he dropped over dead from a massive coronary. Since we I was technically still his wife I got his pension and told the teenybopper he was with to go take a hike .
     
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    1. Rixer
      Karma can be sweet.
       
      Rixer, Feb 7, 2021
    2. NEOhioGuy
      Ahh, how life takes mysterious turns and twists.
       
      NEOhioGuy, Feb 13, 2021
    3. Ed Itor
      My sister's husband waited until the divorce was finalised.
       
      Ed Itor, Feb 13, 2021
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  15. inmyhand

    inmyhand My Goddesses Toy

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    i have no idea when still working on it and what i don't like is making mistakes and my failure both here mistake was getting married in the first place
     
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  16. NEOhioGuy

    NEOhioGuy Sex Lover

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    I have been divorced for 3 years now, asked 2 different women in the last year to go on a date and was turned down. I had one woman that was after me but I wasn't attracted to her for various reasons.

    I am definitely okay being single, and not having a GF/Wife does not make me feel alone. I will say I know myself a lot better than before, so I am definitely looking for a someone who is more open-minded.

    After being married for 25 years, I find it difficult to know how to date anymore. In the 80s, you went on a date to learn about each other. Now it seems like the person won't go on a date with you unless you have been texting etc for 6 months. I find it to be very impersonal, but that's just me. I'd rather learn more in person, not via the internet. JMHO.
     
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  17. tenguy

    tenguy Reasoned voice of XNXX

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    Was married for 14, mostly miserable years, it took two years for the divorce to be final. She got the house, the new car, the furniture and the kids. What got was the bills, the maintenance, and my freedom. Two years in a dinky apartment with shabby furniture, but it was a palace to me. The kids and I found ourselves together 2 weekends a month, we had a blast, best times ever.

    Then I started dating an old friend from work, we were married shortly thereafter, it will be 45 years in June.
     
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  18. Valspar

    Valspar porn surfer

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    Ours was amicable almost 3 years ago.
    We're still friends and talk almost daily while trying to put our daughter through college as co-parents.
    It's really not that hard...the kids come first.
     
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  19. tenguy

    tenguy Reasoned voice of XNXX

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    My ex and I got along once the kids were grown, as they got married and had their own families, we actually liked each other.
     
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    1. Valspar
      Life goes on, man.
      Why make it harder than it already is?
      I may have seen that on a bumper sticker....
       
      Valspar, Feb 13, 2021
    2. Ed Itor
      Now you get to be grandparents and rein vengeance upon the kids. lol
       
      Ed Itor, Feb 13, 2021
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